T-dick and masturbation

[onlyashadow]

heyy so, never posted here so forgive me if i do something wrong

but im a AFAB person whos been on testosterone for almost 9 months now. I have clitoris growth due to the T.
i thought having my t dick would mean id be able to feel good from masturbation,,,because ive never been able to. but its still the exact same, nothing works, touching it, using a vibrator etc…and nothing like inside me feels good either even if i really want it to…it kinda sucks
does anyone know anything to do??

[Heather]

Hi there, onlyashadow, and welcome. There's nothing wrong with what you're asking here.

Feeling good from masturbation or sex with partners tends to be about a lot more than just sensation in our genitals (or, if this has been an issue for you pre-T and clitoris growth, more than about not experiencing gender dysphoria). It also has a lot to do with, and in some ways, even more to do with, what's going on in our brains.

So, the best place to start to try and troubleshoot something like this is to start by finding out how you feel when you start masturbating. When you start, are you doing so because you already feel sexual desire and feel turned on? When you're doing things like adding a vibrator or trying to insert something, are you doing those things only after you're already pretty aroused or before? What's motivating you to masturbate? In other words, is this about feeling sexually excited and curious to explore your sexuality, or is it feeling more like something you do to try and solve a problem?