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how to cum
hi i'm a girl that fingers herself a'lot but i use my finger in i been wondering how can i cum or where can i find my g spot i play with my breast in nipples sometimes but i really want to cum in i watch porn videos in it turns me on i be wet but when i play with myself i just want to cum and i dont got sex toys at all i Dont know want to do
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Re: how to cum
Hi there! We can't give you advice on what to do specifically, because what works is different for everyone. But we do have some good resources on masturbation and orgasm that could help!
To start out with, this article gives an overview of advice for women who are struggling to have their first orgasm:How To Have Your First Orgasm: A Primer for Cisgender Women. It sounds like you're already exploring a lot of this stuff, but I thought I'd pass it along just to be safe.
This is another article about masturbation that has a great list of methods that women/people with vulvas can use: How Do You Masturbate?
And finally, this article is good for anyone — it focuses on having a curious and open mindset while you masturbate, which can be so helpful (feeling pressure or stress is a big turn off for most people, so it unfortunately often makes it harder to orgasm when you're trying really hard to!)
How about you take a look at these articles and then we can talk about any questions you might have?
To start out with, this article gives an overview of advice for women who are struggling to have their first orgasm:How To Have Your First Orgasm: A Primer for Cisgender Women. It sounds like you're already exploring a lot of this stuff, but I thought I'd pass it along just to be safe.
This is another article about masturbation that has a great list of methods that women/people with vulvas can use: How Do You Masturbate?
And finally, this article is good for anyone — it focuses on having a curious and open mindset while you masturbate, which can be so helpful (feeling pressure or stress is a big turn off for most people, so it unfortunately often makes it harder to orgasm when you're trying really hard to!)
How about you take a look at these articles and then we can talk about any questions you might have?