Giving oral when I really didn't want to
Posted: Sat Sep 27, 2025 12:19 am
This probably doesn't fall into the assault category but I just had some things happen to me over the summer and wanted to get one of the incidents of my chest.
For a while I was just feeling numb and kind of just wanted to talk to someone so I started talking to people on this dating app. at this time I was 17 and the guy that I met was 23. For some reason I was almost making a false reality in my head that he actually wanted to get to know me and just talk but after looking back at the messages now I realize that he only wanted one thing. Before we had met we were talking for about a week but he lived near by and I just wanted to be around someone. In the text he was always bringing up me giving him oral but I would always just ignore it and told him I will see how I feel when we met.
One day I waited for my mom to leave the house and I told him he could come to the pool parking lot in my neighborhood. He had parked in a corner and I got in the car. I remember I was cold and nervous while also avoiding eye contact. I tried to make small talk for as long as I could but I could tell he was getting bored and just wanted me to do it already. He kept rubbing my shoulder as I kept saying that I was nervous and scared but he said that I had no reason to be scared. He took his manhood out and started touching himself so I knew it was already too late. He kept rubbing me and I finally leaned over in his lap. The whole experience was really gross. He turned the music down and all I could hear was him. I didn't know what the hell I was doing and felt so weird. He was touching my butt and pressing down on my head and pulling on my hair telling me to touch him and go faster. He ejaculated in my mouth and I was disgusted. He got a bottle from the back so I could spit it out and for some reason I just blanked. I can't remember what happened but one minute I was spitting and the next minute the bottle was out of my hand. After that he asked what I was doing for the rest of the day and it almost felt like he was trying to get rid of me so I got out and walked home. After that, I didn't hear from him for about a month and a half and one day he decided to text me. He was saying how much he missed it and said that we were actually supposed to have sex that day. I ended up saying no for almost 2 weeks and finally blocked him. For weeks and sometimes even now I flinch just thinking about it or can still feel his hand on me or the salty taste of his semen in my mouth. I hate myself.
For a while I was just feeling numb and kind of just wanted to talk to someone so I started talking to people on this dating app. at this time I was 17 and the guy that I met was 23. For some reason I was almost making a false reality in my head that he actually wanted to get to know me and just talk but after looking back at the messages now I realize that he only wanted one thing. Before we had met we were talking for about a week but he lived near by and I just wanted to be around someone. In the text he was always bringing up me giving him oral but I would always just ignore it and told him I will see how I feel when we met.
One day I waited for my mom to leave the house and I told him he could come to the pool parking lot in my neighborhood. He had parked in a corner and I got in the car. I remember I was cold and nervous while also avoiding eye contact. I tried to make small talk for as long as I could but I could tell he was getting bored and just wanted me to do it already. He kept rubbing my shoulder as I kept saying that I was nervous and scared but he said that I had no reason to be scared. He took his manhood out and started touching himself so I knew it was already too late. He kept rubbing me and I finally leaned over in his lap. The whole experience was really gross. He turned the music down and all I could hear was him. I didn't know what the hell I was doing and felt so weird. He was touching my butt and pressing down on my head and pulling on my hair telling me to touch him and go faster. He ejaculated in my mouth and I was disgusted. He got a bottle from the back so I could spit it out and for some reason I just blanked. I can't remember what happened but one minute I was spitting and the next minute the bottle was out of my hand. After that he asked what I was doing for the rest of the day and it almost felt like he was trying to get rid of me so I got out and walked home. After that, I didn't hear from him for about a month and a half and one day he decided to text me. He was saying how much he missed it and said that we were actually supposed to have sex that day. I ended up saying no for almost 2 weeks and finally blocked him. For weeks and sometimes even now I flinch just thinking about it or can still feel his hand on me or the salty taste of his semen in my mouth. I hate myself.