Scarleteen

so sorry that i usually just log on here, post, and don't respond to the replies.... i will be doing it again unfortunately

i got a vibrator from my friend which i think will rly help me come and i've gotten close-ish by leaving it on one setting for a while and slowlyyyyyyy going up while reading material (lol) but when it starts getting good my legs kick really aggressively and i get twitchy and i can't hold the vibrator where it goes and the kicking makes the stimulation too overwhelming. help???

also i keep on throwing myself over onto my side, which isnt the position i masturbate in, nor is that helpful either, also also all of this is accompanied by my inner thigh muscles cramping

You don't owe us replies, no worries.

So, it sounds like this particular vibrator may be either a) too powerful -- or being used at too powerful a setting -- b) being used too directly on your clitoris, or c) both. Of course, one more possibility is just that it's working, but something about it is too activating for you to the point that you are feeling more ticklish than good, or generally uncomfortable because it just makes you too twitchy.

Not every toy is the right toy for everyone or everything, alas. We have to experiment with different ones, and some of them just won't make the cut. But you can also try a lower setting and more indirect contact with the sensitive parts of your body and see if that feels any better to you.