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So i have only recently started masurbating and if I'm not listening to anything explicit its very hard for me to get wet, but when i do listen to something, it happens quickly and i feel a bit more good, but I've noticed my nipples don't get hard, and ive tried rubbing them oulling them soft and hard and slightly pinching and i dont feel anything from it and im just wondering if thats normal so ive just recently started or if i should get checked oh and ive also never orgasmed before either.

Hi tonytonymoni! It's totally fine when some touches aren't outright pleasurable, because everyone's bodies are different. For some people, they don't feel anything when they touch their nipples directly, but rubbing through clothing or underwear does the job. The same can be said with our signs of arousal, as you can read in this article (https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-sex ... sers-guide); one person's nipples may not become hard when aroused, but their body flushes and they're breathing more quickly. Aside from rubbing your nipples, is there anything else you've done that you find to be pleasurable (and the opposite)? It might be helpful to keep track of that.

I've read your other post, and it seems like listening to and/or watching explicit media is quite challenging to do now considering your parents might find out and scold you. Is it possible for you to get earphones if you're looking to use said media to masturbate? If it's impossible, I wonder if you can use other media that doesn't produce sounds--like texts or pictures.