My fantasy

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Borzoi42
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My fantasy

Unread post by Borzoi42 »

So I’ve kinda found out today that I have a weird-ish fantasy. I found out that vampires and such turn me on, like the idea of having sex with a female vampire, and also being dominated by women kinda. In another post I mention buying a sex toy and now I’m thinking of buying one that looks like a vampires mouth or vagina. But yeah I just wanted to share to make me feel better, and I wonder if any of you have any fantasies or stuff with monsters?
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Re: My fantasy

Unread post by Tara »

Hi, Borzoi 42:

Sometimes in experimenting with ourselves and our fantasies we discover we have certain preferences for things. This isn't bad and it is something you can explore more. Is there anything in particular you need to talk about regarding this?
Borzoi42
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Re: My fantasy

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I’m not sure to be honest, sometimes I want to explore it but don’t know if it’ll be bad for me mental health
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Re: My fantasy

Unread post by lilikoi »

Monster fantasies are huge! I live in Washington where Twilight was set so I know plenty of people with vampire fantasies. Really, sexual fantasies are as diverse as the eight billion people who live in the world. I wonder if these columns give you any insight into what you've been learning about yourself? Fantasizing is very normal and having those thoughts does not signal mental health concerns.

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Borzoi42
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Re: My fantasy

Unread post by Borzoi42 »

Thank you for those articles they were really insightful! I thought about the vampire stuff a lot yesterday, and I felt I liked it to a degree, but there are things a bit too much for me. If that makes sense?
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Re: My fantasy

Unread post by Latha »

Hi Borzoi!

Yes, that makes sense. You can keep the parts that you liked in your fantasies, and let go of the things that are too much. I mean, it is your fantasy in your head, so you get to do whatever you want. :D

Do you feel better about this interest now?
Borzoi42
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Re: My fantasy

Unread post by Borzoi42 »

Yeah I do know, it feels nice to know I’m not alone in this and it’s a normal and fun fantasy to have :)
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