Having sex raw

Questions and discussion about your sexual lives, choices, activities, ideas and experiences.
flatfootteal
newbie
Posts: 4
Joined: Thu Feb 05, 2026 3:57 pm
Age: 19
Awesomeness Quotient: My lups
Primary language: English
Pronouns: She/her
Sexual identity: Desperate
Location: America

Having sex raw

Unread post by flatfootteal »

Me and my boyfriend did it raw last night, it was our second time having sex but we didn’t do it long enough for him to come, but I know men can pre-come and that worries me. My period app says I’m supposed to get it tomorrow but sometimes it’s wrong so I’m stressing until tomorrow because I don’t know where I’m at in my cycle.
Heather
scarleteen founder & director
Posts: 10767
Joined: Sun Jul 27, 2014 1:43 pm
Age: 56
Awesomeness Quotient: I have been a sex educator for nearly 30 years!
Primary language: english
Pronouns: they/them
Sexual identity: queery-queer-queer
Location: Chicago

Re: Having sex raw

Unread post by Heather »

Having unprotected intercourse — without using any form of contraception, including condoms — is generally not something anyone should do who doesn’t want to risk pregnancy, STIs, or both.

Did you both want to and agree to taking these risks together? It doesn’t sound to me like something you feel comfortable with.
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has. - Margaret Mead
Post Reply Previous topicNext topic