i get urges to ""luv"" a guy help

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powerbop1999999
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i get urges to ""luv"" a guy help

Unread post by powerbop1999999 »

hi, i;m new and i'm liking a friend but i don't know if they love me more than a friend help and i don't know if there str8 or g@y????? pls pls pls help how do i stop the urges
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Re: i get urges to ""luv"" a guy help

Unread post by Becky »

Hey powerbop! Welcome to the boards.

So for starters, can I ask what do you mean by "stop the urges"? Do you mean you don't want to like/have a crush on this person anymore? Why is that?

Unfortunately there is no accurate way to tell if someone is gay or straight without them just telling you outright but you might enjoy this article: How Do I Tell if Someone is Into Me?
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