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i've seen this question asked a lot but its still super scary and ig i need reassurance abt it. i'm 17 and my hands just aren't enough for me. i want to buy a toy but i have super vibrant hair and there's no where else except for places my parents and i ALWAYS go to and i dont want to get recognized. i'm too scared to go shop online incase my mom opens the package or if the packaging is super obvious . what do i do?

Hi skaiamodus, welcome to the boards! It can definitely be challenging to get a sex toy when privacy is a concern. Just wanted to be sure about this; by "places," do you mean sex toy shops or pharmacy stores where your parents usually visit to get sex-related items? I also think it would be helpful to know if sexuality is something that's been discussed in your family, and what your parents feel about sex.

For the time being, I wonder if it's possible for you to create your own sex toys using the things you already own, or wouldn't look too "unusual" for you to purchase yourself. For instance, you can use a condom on the body part of an electric toothbrush and use it as a vibrator. There are more options you can consider in this article: D.I.Y Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition. As far as I'm concerned, it's possible to have a sex toy sent discreetly from online stores, but I understand there's always a possibility that someone else opens the package before you do.