Scarleteen

unsure if i'm using the right terminology. i'm struggling to 'ride' my partner or be straddling him during sex as it causes severe pain in my hips. despite my active want to do so, with no pressure involved, i can't find a way to make it comfortable for myself and keep him, like, inside of me due to having to have a fairly wide stance with my legs to accomodate my hip pain. is there any way to negate this? i've seen 'stool' type things online that are meant for this, but i'd rather not buy anything haha. thank you ^^

Hi! I was going to suggest those stools, as they're pretty much made for this sort of situation. There's not too much else we can suggest if you've tried different stances and such already and they don't work out. Sometimes some positions just aren't a good fit for everyone, but that's also why accommodations like those stools exist! Is there a particular reason you would rather not buy anything?