Pregnancy scare
Posted: Sun May 10, 2026 7:21 am
I want to start this off by saying I know I am incredibly stupid and I know I could have handled things better but I didn’t. I feel like after rerealizing what I have done with my partner I feel like I was just so stupid and there really is no excuse for my stupidity, I’m just scared.
So me and my partner occasionally have vaginal sex (maybe like 11 times the past 3-4 months) and we use protection every time but at the start we don’t. My partner does it so that their penis gets hard and I never really bought it but I just didn’t question it.
We usually do that around 5 minutes each time and they never ejaculate inside but there’s always a risk.
The first time this happened I was really worried and I didn't know that I was going to experience that or what was going to happen to me since my parents were really strict and I didn’t really have a means of going anywhere (they don’t know about any of this). They kept telling me it was fine, it was totally normal, and they’ve done this plenty of times and no girl has complained or said anything about it.
I find this really difficult to believe but I’m assuming their other past partners mentioned their boundaries before hand and so there were no misunderstandings. I guess since they said this and nothing happened I was more relaxed and less afraid about the consequences of what could happen. The more I think about it though, I just realized it was really stupid of me to be ok with it even for a second.
My period is due in around 3 days from now and I’m feeling all the PMS symptoms I usually get but they not as strong as they usually are. I’m just worried that my other periods I had were not real periods and it was just “light” spotting which doesn’t make sense since my periods weren’t light but anything’s possible. They’ve also been really regular and when they’re a little off, they’re always a bit earlier than expected. I know I can’t get medical advice here and I know what I was thinking for a few months is really dumb but thank you for reading all this.
So me and my partner occasionally have vaginal sex (maybe like 11 times the past 3-4 months) and we use protection every time but at the start we don’t. My partner does it so that their penis gets hard and I never really bought it but I just didn’t question it.
We usually do that around 5 minutes each time and they never ejaculate inside but there’s always a risk.
The first time this happened I was really worried and I didn't know that I was going to experience that or what was going to happen to me since my parents were really strict and I didn’t really have a means of going anywhere (they don’t know about any of this). They kept telling me it was fine, it was totally normal, and they’ve done this plenty of times and no girl has complained or said anything about it.
I find this really difficult to believe but I’m assuming their other past partners mentioned their boundaries before hand and so there were no misunderstandings. I guess since they said this and nothing happened I was more relaxed and less afraid about the consequences of what could happen. The more I think about it though, I just realized it was really stupid of me to be ok with it even for a second.
My period is due in around 3 days from now and I’m feeling all the PMS symptoms I usually get but they not as strong as they usually are. I’m just worried that my other periods I had were not real periods and it was just “light” spotting which doesn’t make sense since my periods weren’t light but anything’s possible. They’ve also been really regular and when they’re a little off, they’re always a bit earlier than expected. I know I can’t get medical advice here and I know what I was thinking for a few months is really dumb but thank you for reading all this.