I want to compliment my chubby girlfriend
Posted: Thu May 14, 2026 11:13 pm
Okay okay okay, so this could either be something in the relationships or the bodies section, but since it isn't about my own body then I guess I'm putting it here
Hi Scarleteen!
I recently have been growing close to this girly whom I would like to be my gf (or maybe she already is? I dunno its confusing). Shes a big girl and Iove that, most girls aren't taller than me. She's also chubby which is great for cuddling and I love her very dearly.
My trouble is, I want to talk about bodies normally, and I'm not really sure as to what is offensive on regards to body types. She is... I don't even know how to put this in words that don't sound rude. I'm a little twink as she puts it (I like it when she calls me it dw). Actually, yeah, she made a comment about my body and I liked it. How can I do the same for her? When she said that it was in context so it made more sense, it wasn't out of nowhere. I don't know how I would tease her like that, because I know I want to and it could be fun for both of us but I don't know what is considered rude. I also like her chubby-ness and I want to tell her that, but kinda the same dilema.
I'm not used to dealing with body types and language, I've always viewed skinny as ideal and so that's how I rose myself, but I know there are a lot more types out there than just skinny, and it isn't rude to say so, I'm just not used to talking about it at all.
Thank you for your help!
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Hi Scarleteen!
I recently have been growing close to this girly whom I would like to be my gf (or maybe she already is? I dunno its confusing). Shes a big girl and Iove that, most girls aren't taller than me. She's also chubby which is great for cuddling and I love her very dearly.
My trouble is, I want to talk about bodies normally, and I'm not really sure as to what is offensive on regards to body types. She is... I don't even know how to put this in words that don't sound rude. I'm a little twink as she puts it (I like it when she calls me it dw). Actually, yeah, she made a comment about my body and I liked it. How can I do the same for her? When she said that it was in context so it made more sense, it wasn't out of nowhere. I don't know how I would tease her like that, because I know I want to and it could be fun for both of us but I don't know what is considered rude. I also like her chubby-ness and I want to tell her that, but kinda the same dilema.
I'm not used to dealing with body types and language, I've always viewed skinny as ideal and so that's how I rose myself, but I know there are a lot more types out there than just skinny, and it isn't rude to say so, I'm just not used to talking about it at all.
Thank you for your help!
- Leaflet