I feel guilty for wanting to have sex

[coffeebeans]

I feel bad for wanting sex and I don't know what to to about it. I never wanted it before but now I want to try it ??

Also how do you know you're not fetishizing women? ? I don't want to make it seem like I'm reducing someone to just their body or make someone uncomfortable. I want them to feel safe with me and not feel like I'm using them .

And how do you communicate what you want without feeling ashamed about it? I still tense up at the mention of sex or talking about it or what I want but I'm supposed to be an adult now.