I feel absolutely nothing

[ohkayyyyy]

so i don't masturbate often, but when i do i feel absolutely nothing, like it just feels like rubbing my fingers everywhere inside, doesn't feel good or anything just weird, even with so much as 3 fingers, i haven't tried putting anything inside aswell

[HannahP]

Hi there, ohkayyyyy! This is a very common question we get, and Heather, our Director, wrote a great advice column answer to it that I think will be helpful to you: Feeling pain or feeling nothing at all = my experience of sex.

Once you've read that one, I highly recommend checking out this article too: Take a Self-Love Road Trip: Let Curiosity Guide Your Masturbation. It has great advice for a method of approaching masturbation in an exploratory way that will help you figure out what is arousing and what feels good to you.

Take a look at those articles and then let me know what you think! I'm happy to help talk through the ideas.