Scarleteen

So basically there’s this girl (let’s call her Jane) and she has dated a bunch of people in a short timespan, however her reasons are, in my opinion, justified. (One barely messaged, one criticised her for barely messaging and one was “too young”) I think I’ve liked her for a bit and I’m not sure if she likes me back but I’ve told her and she said she didn’t know and asked me recently if I still liked her to which I said I’m in the middle. I would like to know if it’s actually worth it to start dating her cause I’m worried it might take a lot of my time and energy due to disorders and her lack of being able to message, which makes me always initiate it. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks!

Hey Parabola, welcome to the boards!

Before getting into your question, I think it'd be nice to have more background info. Could you let us know how you and Jane met? How long have you two known each other? What makes you attracted to her? Also, what kind of person are you looking for in a romantic relationship?

I'd also like to remind you to be truthful with your birthdate so we can help you better, as I've noticed a difference between the age and the birthdate you put in. Would you be able to change it?