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Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2026 9:05 pm
Iam 13 when I masterbate I don't shoot anything out yet an my friend can is there something wrong with me or am I not doing it right btw I go up an down on it thanks for any help
Hi there, Mason.
Ejaculation is something that often will happen a little further down the road in puberty, so while some people your same age will already be able to do it, for others, possibly including you, it may take a couple more years. Have you yet experienced any wet dreams? That's a kind of ejaculation that will often happen in the middle of the night, and that starts to happen before ejaculation from something like masturbation.
It's very unlikely something is wrong with you, but if you find that it's been a few more years after this and you're still not ejaculating, or like any other part of the puberty process isn't happening in a generally expected timetable -- you can read up [url="Not Everything You Wanted To Know About Puberty (But Pretty Darn Close)"]about all that here[/url] -- that's certainly something you can check in with a healthcare provider about.