How to engage in coprophilia safely?

[darkerside]

Very blunt title.

So I'm a bit scared to post this, but I guess I'm going to bite the bullet and post it.

I am 17 years old and as you can probably guess, there's no easy resources for how to do scat play easily (I checked on this website to). I don't have a partner but even if I did they would probably think scat is weird.

And everything about that kink is so stigmatized because it's gross and it makes me feel bad about myself. There's lots of resources for bdsm or choking or even pee but not for coprophilia

I don't want to eat poop but i like the feeling when it's warm and touches my clitoris but I don't wanna get an infection because I don't shower that much

Thanks for any advice, sorry

[amber]

Hi darkerside,

I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to join us here and no need to apologize.

"Kink" is a tricky word that has the tendency to put shame on desires that one deems "irregular" or "not normal". The truth is sexual desire is much more complicated than that and there is truly no "normal".

I know you said you checked out our articles, but I think a good place to start would be this advice piece How can I learn about kink as a minor? . Are you interested in giving it a read?

[darkerside]

I read it. It was good, but I'm asking about coprophilia specifically. (I've checked everywhere (on other sites)) And there's no advice on how to do stuff like avoid infections because people are too disgusted to write anything about scat

[amber]

I'm glad you found the advice piece to be good. I do understand that your seeking more specific advice.

I should preference that offering step by step guides to sexual activity is not something I will do here. Most notably because there is very rarely a cut and dry answer.

When it comes to vaginal health in general, changes to bacteria and pH can happen for a variety of reasons. Introducing different forms of bacteria to the vaginal environment can lead to infections such as bacterial vaginosis. To risk mitigate, people can use barrier methods (condoms, dental dams, etc.) or rely on fantasy (erotica, imagination,etc.) when engaging with behavior that may invite risk of vaginal infection.

This may not be the exact response you were looking for, and I'm happy to keep talking with you about it, but I hope it is helpful!

[Heather]

Hey, there, I just wanted to add a couple of things!

Whatever the substance, when it comes to preventing vaginal infections with something you have had contact with on your vulva, you’ll just want to clean up right after, with warm water and a gentle cleanser (if it’s safe for your face, it usually is for your vulva). That and doing what you can to keep any fecal matter away from the vaginal opening, period, will really be all you need to do.

It might help to remember that it’s pretty common for trace amounts of feces to wind up around the vagina just due to its proximity to the anus, so again, so long as you clean up when there has been any direct contact with it, it’s probably going to be just fine.

[darkerside]

Thanks!

[Heather]

Happy to help, and I'm glad you felt as comfortable as you could asking about this here. <3