Lasting longer

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cool-person-22
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Lasting longer

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So my partner and I have been more sexually active recently, and it has been good for both of us. We both really like doggy style, however, every time we do it, for some reason I always feel like I can't last that long during that specific position. Is there any advice on ways to last longer during doggy, or just last longer in general? Thank you!
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Re: Lasting longer

Unread post by Latha »

Hi there, cool-person-22!

Hmmm... since the problem is with this specific position, there is a good chance that you'll be able to last longer as it becomes more familiar to you. You could try to slow down, or pause and switch to another activity if you feel like you are getting close, and start again once you feel ready.

If I may ask, why are you interested in this? Do you, or your partner, not feel satisfied?
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Re: Lasting longer

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Both of us are satisfied, but I just wish that I was able to last longer in this position for her, because she really enjoys it, and I feel bad by not being able to last long
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Re: Lasting longer

Unread post by mikky »

Have you talked about this with her- and if so, what does she think?
What do you think about Latha's suggestions of slowing down or pausing and switching activities?
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