Why i don't feel anything

[Alexis2000]

So I'm a girl i have 25 years old .. okay i didn't have sex yet and i don't want to lose my virginity alone but recently i find interesting in have anal sex the point is i try it twice with some tools not dildo but something from house and I didn't feel anything usually i give up after one minute because i clearly doesn't feel anything not even pain just if i push it further witch is hard to do i don't know why i feel a little pressure with a little pain but not enjoying it ... I feel i should enjoy it because I'm obsessed with anal sex and it's make me want to masterbation when i see videos of people have anal sex but i don't feel anything myself what should i do can this solve or should i just you know just give up

[mikky]

Hi Alexis2000,
If you are using household objects to masturbate, it is really important that you take care to be safe as these objects are not designed for anal use. Anything you use in your anus needs to have a flared base, for your safety. You should also be covering any objects with a condom, as most objects can harbor bacteria we don't want to introduce to your body. You can read more in this article: D.I.Y Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition.

If you are not feeling particularly interested or pleasurable with a particular type of stimulation, there is no need to keep trying it. What feels good for some people doesn't feel good for all people. Rather, I encourage you to explore different stimulation and sensations and see what does feel good for you.