sooo hai!! i just got a new uhum. dildo at a spencers and the lady said to get wipes but i could barely afford the 17 dollar toy as it is...so i dont know what to use to clean it. its a silicone one, i forgot the brand but i know it was pink clear packaging
idk if she said if it was porous or not but i need to know how to clean it without my parents knowing..thank u... <3
how to clean a 'toy' i got
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Re: how to clean a 'toy' i got
Hi there, and welcome to the boards. 
You can mostly just clean it with soap and hot water. Given how inexpensive it was (I know $17 still isn't nothing, but quality sex toys tend to be more expensive), I am going to assume it probably is porous, and think you should too. That given, if you can cover it with a condom when you use it, great, but if not, I would suggest boiling it at least every couple of uses.
You can mostly just clean it with soap and hot water. Given how inexpensive it was (I know $17 still isn't nothing, but quality sex toys tend to be more expensive), I am going to assume it probably is porous, and think you should too. That given, if you can cover it with a condom when you use it, great, but if not, I would suggest boiling it at least every couple of uses.
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Re: how to clean a 'toy' i got
hii and thank uu
and thank u also for the advice, sadly i dont..have condoms..or anything like that really
but ill try my best to boil it without my parents noticing THANK YOU SO MUCH :p
and thank u also for the advice, sadly i dont..have condoms..or anything like that really
but ill try my best to boil it without my parents noticing THANK YOU SO MUCH :p-
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Re: how to clean a 'toy' i got
Happy to help.
I just took a look at your IP address, and it looks like you're in a state with some free condom programs. Would it be okay with you if I posted links to those resources here? If not for the toy, you may want or need access to condoms at some point if you decide to have sex with any partners. <3
I just took a look at your IP address, and it looks like you're in a state with some free condom programs. Would it be okay with you if I posted links to those resources here? If not for the toy, you may want or need access to condoms at some point if you decide to have sex with any partners. <3
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Re: how to clean a 'toy' i got
ough yes id very appreciate that since im also planning on being uhm sexually active 
thank uu soo much i really duper appreciate it :3
thank uu soo much i really duper appreciate it :3-
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Re: how to clean a 'toy' i got
You got it. Here you are.
• https://positivelyu.org/prevention-services/
• https://myhho.org/tampa-sti-clinic/
• https://hopeandhelp.org/solution/free-c ... n-orlando/
• https://volusia.floridahealth.gov/progr ... ndoms.html
• https://www.chcmed.com/request-a-condom/
• all of those above are sent by mail -- you can also pick up- condoms in person, if you prefer that, at public health departments across the state: https://volusia.floridahealth.gov/locations/index.html
• https://positivelyu.org/prevention-services/
• https://myhho.org/tampa-sti-clinic/
• https://hopeandhelp.org/solution/free-c ... n-orlando/
• https://volusia.floridahealth.gov/progr ... ndoms.html
• https://www.chcmed.com/request-a-condom/
• all of those above are sent by mail -- you can also pick up- condoms in person, if you prefer that, at public health departments across the state: https://volusia.floridahealth.gov/locations/index.html
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Re: how to clean a 'toy' i got
THANK YOU so much <3
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Re: how to clean a 'toy' i got
Sure thing!
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